My Pickup Video will MELT YOUR FACE OFF
In this blog post:
1- Where to see my Pickup Video
2- How to Transition into any routine
3- Upcoming appearances and news
People ask me sometimes, "What's it liked being voted the #1 PUA in all those polls? How does it feel to be the best in the world at something?"
In a way it's really cool. It's nice to have my accomplishments noticed.
In other ways, it can be hard, because once you're the acknowledged #1 at anything, there's always going to be critics nit-picking everything you do. Most of the critics are just random dickheads on internet forums, not really folks I'm going to take notice of. But once in a while I will listen to a critique, if it's from a reputable source. I'm a pretty open minded guy, and I like to give the people what they want.
TSBmag.com has raised the issue of in-field video, and me not having any. I think the public wants to see this too.
So what's the deal with this?
Well I've had in-field video for years now. I've showed it at seminars as far back as 2006. So if you read about me not having videos, all that means is that the writer didn't see them. I've had these videos the whole time.
I don't put these videos on the internet because I think it's good to respect the privacy of the women in these videos.
Maybe you've watched pickup videos on the internet. I've watched a few. It's a video of a guy talking to a girl, pretty boring overall. My pickup video is not like the others. In fact, it's COMPLETELY SHOCKING.
This is the kind of video I could NEVER put on the internet. I'd end up getting kicked off youtube, attacked in the media, and banned by my webhost.
So this puts me in a bit of a dilema. Show it and risk the consequences? Or sit on it and let the critics think I have no videos.
I've made a decision that I'm going to show the videos, in person, at 2 major Pickup Conferences. This is an open invitation to TSBmag.com, Thundercat, Sinn, and anyone else who does a top ten list to see the video first hand.
I will show the video at 2 West Coast locations as well (to be named later) and then I'M BURNING THE TAPES.
So if you'd like to come hear me speak and watch the videos, please check out the following conferences:
www.globalpickupconference.com
Friday May 28th: Glenn and I will bother be speaking, we start at 12 noon.
Saturday June 5th
Glenn and I start around 6pm.
There's a lot of big name speakers at these conferences. They're pretty affordable as well.
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Transitioning into a routine
One of the things that frequently prevents students from using tried and tested effective material is
"I don't know how to transition into it."
This is an easy fix.
The incorrect assumption here is that you need some kind of clever, smooth way to get into a routine, or else it seems to be "out of nowhere" and we don't want it to be "out of nowhere."
This is wrong.
Here's why-
-There's nothing wrong with any piece of material (pro script, self script, or natural) being "out of nowhere." The women will just adapt to your frame and follow along.
- Trying to be clever and smooth with transitions generally results in 3-4 seconds of thinking too hard, which makes you look incongruent, reduces your ability to take the lead, prevents you from listening to the other person (important skill), and reduces your ability to calibrate.
So how does one transition into a piece of material? Well it's simple. Just PLOW RIGHT INTO IT. Once you get the idea in your head that it's time to do a piece of material, just start. That's it.
Let's take the 8 girlfriends routine for example. There are many ways to just jump in. "How many boyfriends do you have?" or "did I ever tell you I have 8 girlfriends?" or "one of my girlfriends looks just like you." And you're off to the races.
Another one people have told me they have trouble getting into is the whatever song. It's as simple as "check out this song" or "let me teach you this song." It doesn't always have to be triggered by the girls saying whatever.
You can just stack and jump from one thing to the next, to the next, and the girls will just follow.
Once in a while they might say "that's so random" or "that's out of nowhere." This is not a bad thing. Just say "yeah I know" and keep plowing through.
"That's out of nowhere" is not a criticism, so don't take it like one. If you do, you're showing insecurity. That's instant death in this game.
This comes down to showing leadership. Think of a situation where there is a clear cut leader. Maybe a drill Sargent or college professor. They talk about what they want to talk about and tell you what the fuck to do. They don't sit there wondering "how can I transition into this without it being too random?" Once you start thinking that you're losing momentum.
This technique for transitioning has been tested and proven to be successful for several years now. Even beginners can do it.
This lesson on transitioning is one of those counter-intuitive things that confuses a lot of people when they first start learning pickup. If you want to handle a lot of those issues all at once, the best thing for you might be our in-field workshop.
Glenn is going to be teaching in Washington DC next weekend, and we have a workshop coming up in Las Vegas the week after that.
My coaches will amaze you with their ability to pinpoint exactly what's hold you back. I've seen a lot of students move backwards in their game because of poor self-diagnosis. It's worth the price of admission to have a real expert check out your game and fix a few things. It's truly a life changing experience.
Here's the schedule- http://bradp.com/training
Contact me or my right hand man Drew to get set up with a workshop or 1on1 training.
Phone: +1 (702) 516-8879
E-Mail Brad: BradP@BradP.com
E-Mail Drew: Drew@BradP.com
Hope to see you soon!
-Brad
www.BradP.com
