Workshop Review- New York City, June 2010

Here's a review from one of the guys who was at the recent workshop in New York City. He is also a 30/30 Member, and this review was posted on the 30/30 Forum.

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For me this was a transformative weekend when my comfort zone was stretched way beyond my elastic limit! I did stuff that I had never done before to the point where my belief system literally shifted to possibilities that I never imagined before!

With a very healthy student to coaches ratio, we all got the personalized attention, and I had such positive experiences that I thought I'd share with you.

The feedback that I got was so down to the letter that I now have enough to work with in improving my game. The four coaches that I worked directly with were Brad, Jake, Hyper and Glenn.

In sets that I was in at West 4th Washington part, Jake noticed some behavior of mine and body language telegraphing neediness, and I made a mental note of it. In a set at Union Square, Brad noticed my tendency to be rather too reactive to her in an interaction, almost putting her on a pedestal, and I made a mental note of this as well.

During the night game at a club downtown, Glenn and Hyper noticed my lack of presence, and literally kicked my ass into sets that I would normally go into. A classic set was this blond sitting not too far from us, and before I was ready, Glenn goes: "K.S., you are the shit! None of this nonsense of neediness! You are the man! Go to that girl and fuck her!" Before I could think, I calmly walked over to her, motioned her to make way on her chair, sat on the same chair, put my arms around her, pulled her hair before I even said a word!

My euphoric moment came on the dance floor. I was with Hyper, and while a song I liked was playing, I started dancing, and Hyper was like "Hey K.S., you’ve got some moves, man! See those 5 girls dancing over there, go over into the middle of that circle and dance with all of them, “elimidating” them in turns!” I had read about Brad doing this on dance floors, and had been to clubs several times, but just did not have the bones to try it.

Before I could think, I just calmly walked over, squished two girls aside and moved in to the middle of the pack and started doing my thing. I held one girl’s hand and had her do the spin for me, and “elimidated” her 30 seconds. Turned to the other girl by the pole and started grinding her against the pole, and she responded by grinding back. In a minute or so into this, I “elimidated” her and started dancing with the 3rd girl. Before I was aware, all five girls were literally grinding at me, and noticed flash lights all around me.

At this moment, a shift happened in my reality and I mentally told myself that “Yeah! I am the shit! I am entitled to all these women”.

While I am not there yet, this has been a transformative weekend, and I have the tools to push my game further. I consider myself a recovering “nice guy”, and over the next few months or so, my task is to work on those key points, and develop my self esteem and sense of entitlement to the women that I have worked so had to develop my skills for. I am the prize, and I am entitled to as many hot chicks that wish to go in for!

Seeing the coaches in action took this to another level altogether. Glenn did a street set at Union Square with a phone close, with Hyper narrating to us each step along the way. Very educational. Jake did a set of about six girls at Washington Square with a number close and narrated this to us after wards. I saw Hyper chilling with a cool chick during the night game in one of the clubs. It was obvious that this chick was into him. Brad's sets were like works of art, with each set painted in it's own unique combination of colors and textures. These are visual images that I can play back over and over again as many times that I wish! I didn't interact with Scotty much 'cause he was always with the other groups, but on the last day, I got to interact with him briefly, and found him to be a really cool guy.

Drew had all these stories of himself that had me up in stitches! All in all, an awesome weekend!

I would encourage any one in the 30/30 club who hasn’t done so to consider a WS. It will vastly improve their game overnight!

Cheers,
K.S.